The What-if's and the Should-have's

What if you love someone but you’re afraid of telling them that you do because you don’t want to break your friendship? But what if, he’s just waiting for you to give him the right signs because he’s feeling the same way too, but is also afraid of saying it?   What if both of you really love each other but no one’s brave enough to open it up?

What if…. We really have a lot of hesitations that sometimes it causes us to lose an opportunity where it’s just in front of our eyes and just have to grab it. Because of the deep friendship, no one’s got the enough courage to stand up for their love because of the thought of getting rejected and losing his or her relationship with the other person. We've been having tons and tons of what if’s in our minds. What if… what if.. what if.. it’s exhausting. Why can’t we freely express our true feelings? Just fight for it whatever the outcome may be?

In life, we really have our ups and downs. It doesn't always work out no matter how hard we try because it’s just not meant to be. But even if you failed, atleast you tried. It’s better to try and fail than to never try at all. You don’t want to have regrets later in the future because you didn't say something that might change everything, it’s like it will haunt you forever. You Only Live Once, so make it worth living. Say what your heart truly feels because if you keep on hiding it and just wait for that someone to confess to you first then nothing will happen. Do it, because it’s not impossible that maybe both of you are just waiting for each other until the other one gets tired and eventually fall out of love and it’s gonna be too late and there might not be any second chances at all.  You don’t want that to happen, right? It’s not bad to confess, because we all know that it’s not easy to hide what you really feel. It’s like you just want to say it to that someone’s face that ” HEY! I REALLY LOVE YOU! ” he or she might not reply, but don’t feel guilty. Why will you feel guilty if you’re saying the truth? All you need is 20 seconds of insane courage and you’ll never know if that 20 seconds will be the best 20 seconds of your life…or it could be the worst. 

Just believe in yourself. Never be afraid on what will be the outcome, even if you’re really hopeless, just do it because you never know. Don’t let the what-if’s and the should-have’s eat your brain. Always follow your heart. Live life to the fullest, never miss any opportunities there is to grab. Live. Laugh. Love.

xoxo,
Kim